LETTER TO MY SON

Dear Son,

My son you are growing up and as I see you emerging into a handsome, smart and loving boy. I see beauty that in itself how it is reflecting with such affection of your parents. Me and your Mamma love you always and always will. Keep bringing good change to yourself and to the people around you that one day the world would change for the better as What Allah May Will! I love you son and I'm feeling this heart beating in your chest as if it is mine! May Allah give you all the happiness of the world! All the goodness within you and around you! All the health that you deserve and be healthy with affection! And all the serenity of life and the hereafter Insha'Allah! 

Umar, you have been the reason I can say I have lived with pride! Keep your parents in your prayers always and pray 5 times a day without thinking twice! Recite the Qur'an daily if not after every prayer! Read books and gain knowledge as the people around you would want to debate you with ignorance, and might even win. You should lose with facts instead and your parents will be the proudest from the millions cheering the ignorant!

Teach people around you if they are asking you to. Do not keep the knowledge within you since this knowledge is not ours to keep. It is to spread to people of all religion, color, race, sex. To even aliens who think different of you and how would they know any better if you don't show them What Allah has willed and what is the main purpose of it all, the reality, the facts and the most important of all the reason of living! I love you Son! You will always be watched and loved! 

May Allah always guide you to the best paths! Aameen!

By the way! When you fall in love with a good girl! Fall in love for her religion and she will give you everything Insha'Allah. Maybe along the way you will find hurdles to go through and tough times but do not worry, Allah test the ones He Loves! Life is nothing but a test and we all have to pass it smartly. Qur'an is the prescribed book that has all the solutions to your problems. Be wise when deciding, if you are unable to decide, discuss with elders, friends, family and do not decide with emotions! Your decision should be firm!

Live well my Son!

Live with dignity and live with happiness!

Dream for the beyond and pray to Allah! Beyond will fall to your feet!

Remember my Son! I Will Love Always Love You!

Your Heart,

Baba...

Graduating From The World!

We are a tool of learning and teaching from the day we are born till the day we die. Our basic learning starts from home.  Our parents or people that are in our surroundings, when they do something or the way they do or say, we try to copy and even learn from those movements. The context of learning is impossible to describe since it is incomplete and more innovative ways are being discovered every day. "Learning and Teaching" basic science, it is as same as "Receiving and Giving", it can also be derived as "Exchange of Thoughts and Actions". This exchange of thought, knowledge, collaborated argument, conversation etcetera are a few context of understanding how we are learning and getting our learning into teaching across.

"Wondering how your world works, wondering how your mind works" ... ~by Random_Hijabi (Check her out on tumblr http://randomhijabi.tumblr.com/ )

But the actual understanding and knowledge comes in practicality and from which we understand one another without us speaking to each other. What makes a situation same with us the most is a feeling proportionately same to the other person who is in that state. Things we undergo psychologically and emotionally, so, learning in its own perspective area has deep root to a tree whose branches keep going.

When we personally deal with situations or take a certain decisions, the consequence of a few situations we can predict and derive the outcome and many we take on chances from which we learn as well, regardless of the result be good or bad. Taking wisdom as knowledge and applying it in our daily life is a form of learning. We usually learn from our elders, or people of knowledge regardless of age, there are certain kids that are mature in understanding life than those who are older to them. We come under this amazement of a brain that keeps taking in and sets different places for us to derive them when we need them again. 

Imagination and dreams are tools of learning as well from which we try to make impossible into possible.

The world today has come from thoughts into possibilities, where people dreamed and now can be actually done through something known as “Scientific Research”.  But any person at the end of day should know the basics of life. The Small steps we take can be turned into tortures for ourselves. Graduation from this world needs courage and confidence of the mind and heart.

Hunger Of Dreams; Actions Can Satisfy!

Choices are my red alerts that make my path’s direction change and that might make me stay in a reverie forever. Experiences make our genes and these genes are made through a person’s character. There is a saying “You are what you eat”. Eating is a factor to control a certain person’s ability and desires, for example, when a person desire’s to eat a cheese burger and thinks about exercising would result him to do nothing. So the factor will be zero until he fulfills his desire and does not exercise, this will try to bring the person under the factor of diet but there is none until exercised.

Now, what is a definition of a dream? It is a destination between two points which starts from desire and ends on satisfaction, either fulfilling the need of your emotions or yourself would result into a goal. When a person is bored, most of the time the mind confuses with the thoughts of impossibilities to which day dreams are defined. There are some that can be made possible through a fictional projection.

What does destination has to do with dreams? Well, as long as there is “Time” included in any phase, force may lead the desire to a certain goal means a destination has to be recovered in that certain time or it may flow with time and forgotten.

Today in life our last dream is to live in peace and harmony with our loved ones before even they are taken away from us. We should choose those options which are better for us and better for others. But, how can two couples live together? Even they get divorced after a minute or two. Time is running fast and yes, we are running out of options that may cause a disaster for tomorrow.

I can understand is, time takes us to place where there is hope for everyone and especially for those who have lost their way. We should realize that living in dreams cannot make the dreams come true until made possible by trying (a.k.a "Action"), no matter whatever the consequences may be. We should all dream to succeed but only if we want to live for the gift that moment brings us.